Has anybody else been disgusted lately with the world's view of marriage? Kim Kardashian was married for a whopping three months and then it just wasn't "the fairy tale she had hoped for". Are you kidding me!? Then, this morning I was on my Facebook and a girl I went to high school with announced her divorce - she had gotten married this summer. They apparently had "problems they couldn't get over or change so they went their separate ways". I'm not judging their situations, it just makes me so sad. Marriage shouldn't be something that you can just brush your hands off and walk away from. It's a commitment you've made to stick through it, through the fun honeymoon period but then through the real life crap that happens. I don't claim to be an expert, I've only been married for a year (and a half!) and we've had our rough patches. It's not always rainbows and butterflies... (name that song) You do need to work hard and make some sacrifices. When Zac and I got married my dad told me that marriage requires complete selflessness and it took a little while but I understand that now. Grr. Just, ugh. Like I said, no judgement on anybody's decision on what is right for them but MARRIAGE IS A SACRED THING. End of rant. Commence reading of church talks.
And now, just for good measure, a picture of me and Zac, because I want to.
* Just as a side note, I grew up with parents that were divorced. I really do understand that there are situations where divorce happens and it's ok. I now have a big, amazing family complete with a step-mom that rocks my socks and I'm grateful that she is a part of my life. She is a positive side effect of divorce. My dad & Melissa's marriage is an outstanding example to Zac & I.
3 comments:
This has been a personal issue of mine too. I've heard couples complain their relationships aren't working ....because one or both parties won't change to meet the other's desires, demands, or needs and I have to shake my head and think, you are missing the whole point! This is your chance to overcome your ego and selfish desires, work together, grow as people & as a couple, growing closer together, spiritually & emotionally.
You've got it right. I'm glad you and Zac are working on your marriage. It's not always easy, but so worth it. Your parents are good people and I agree that step-parents are a blessing too. And by the way, you guys owe me a visit :o)
I don't even know who you are, just came across your blog and I couldn't agree more. Thank you for posting and good luck with married life!!!
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